Mommy finally lose her cool

today at Cepheus.  Cepheus finally understood that Mommy can take care of Cepheus and Calyce at the same time.. But he still wouldnt allow Daddy and Granny to carry meimei.. Only mommy can carry 'meimei' and not Daddy and granny.  If Daddy is not around, and he sees mommy carry meimei, he will want mommy to read him story books, play with him and do things for him.  However, when granny helps mommy to carry meimei, he will immediately throw his tantrums again and cries for granny to carry him instead, asking granny to 'return meimei' to mommy to carry instead.  I am getting super tiring nowadays, as Calyce is getting lesser sleep in the day, during the night, i need to spend time with Cepheus as well as taking care of Calyce' needs as he wouldnt allow anyone else to carry her yet except me.

I am glad though that i am seeing improvement in his attitude towards me.  As he is getting used to seeing me carry Calyce as well as allowing me to carry him and hug hug him and play with him.  So he is accustomed to Mommy being able to take care of himself and Calyce.  However, he has yet to overcome his jealousy on allowing other people to carry Calyce including his grandpa (when he came to visit on saturday, he would keep shouting yeye when he sees grandpa carrying calyce) ..

I have to quickly change Cepheus' mind around such that he does not solely 'owns' anybody, as i will be super tired if i have to be the main caregiver for Calyce and have to take care of Cepheus at the same time.  He should carry the same attitude and thinking of the way he thinks of mommy being able to care for both of them as is anybody else. I keep telling him now that Mommy belongs to Calyce and Cepheus and both Cepheus and Calyce belongs to Mommy and Daddy too.. not just Cepheus alone.  I just hope he understands it soon..