Cepheus kena bitten today

by his classmate Isabelle who is also in the same PN1 class as him in Mt Faber NurtureStar.  It was a terrible thing to do to him as it leaves him badly bruised on his left cheek just below the eye.  We are lucky that his eye is not hurt in this incident.  The girl is having problem coping with the fact that her mother is pregnant again with another baby and start to misbehave in school to catch attention.  Only when i spoke to the principal about the accident today that i realise that the girl is already having problems in school with other children since a few weeks back.  Cepheus just happens to be one of another new victim of hers today when he is seated just beside her during reading session and she suddenly turns to bite him on his face.  

When papa brought him back home just now, i was still pumping milk for the baby, upon seeing his bruise i was overcome by shock and stop whatever i am doing.  I immediately called up the school and demanded that the principal called me back for explanation.  The principal is very empathetic over what have happened and assured me that they will seperate Cepheus from the girl so that she could not harm him again, and that they will also talk directly to her parents.  Although i was overcome by anger and shock just now that i actually cried over the accident (guess i was too emo after childbirth) I felt pity for the young girl though.. she must have felt neglected at home by her parents that is why she is reacting in such a way.  Parenting is a very important factor to a child's growth and behaviour.  We should never let the child felt left out or neglected just because another baby is on the way.  I am proud and happy that we have done well in this area.  During early stages, we have instil the idea of having a sibling into Cepheus' mind and have assured him that Daddy and Mommy will always love him as much as his baby sister.  Cepheus never felt any threat at all with his sister's arrival, and instead will shower her with love and always want to 'sayang' her when he came home from school.  Although he sometimes get jealous over her and refuse to let Dear carry her.  Dear will do his best to respect him and be discrete about showing too much love to Calyce in order not to let him feel left out.. esp now that i am not able to carry Cepheus due to my c-sec wound.  On my part, i will continue to shower him with kisses and hugs and play with him when he is home and reminds him that mommy always love him.  We do not scold him unneccessarily esp during this sensitive period and when sometimes he displays abit naughty or wanna poke Calyce out of curiosity, we will not scold or yell at him but will gently tell him that meimei will be pain pain and he will understand and not do it again and will try to touch her gently. We should always continue to show him with enough TLC so that he will not feel threatened over Calyce.  Dear is a great papa and continue to shower him with lotsa love and attention, not anything less even with meimei around, while i will focus on meimei's need and care.  I hope we can and will continue the way we are controlling the situation so that each of them have enough TLC from us and will not get jealous over ea other easily as they progress and grow up..