Cepheus is so sweet

to Mommy nowadays.. esp after Calyce is born, i can feel that my r/s with Cepheus have improved tremendously.  Although he still get jealous every now and then, he can feel that Mommy still loves him alot and he will in turn loves Calyce in return.  Previously, he will be very sticky to his daddy and at times his granny when after Calyce is born, he would throw alot of tantrums and would refuse to allow me to get near him whenever he cries or is sad.  But now, he would look for me every now and then, he would look fwd to mommy driving him to school and fetching him from school every day, want mommy to bring him to playground, bathe and sleep with him at times.  And also whenever he feel sad or cries, he would want mommy to carry and console him.  This is a big leap for me and him and i felt very happy that i have managed to win back his trust and love after all the effort i have put in.  His attitude towards me have not been the best and esp so after Calyce is born, its all because he is not used to having another sibling around and because i am the main caretaker for Calyce, he felt that i have not been giving him the equal attention esp since he is so young and always wanted a cuddle or 'carry' (his most favorite activity) but i have not been able to do that during my last weeks of pregnancy as well as the month after Calyce was born.

I have given him my best and Calyce my best, all my times are spent on them if i am not working or sleeping or doing housework.  Whenever Calyce is asleep, i will spend all my time with Cepheus and vice versa.  It was all worthwhile.  It is a difficult time for both of us esp when Cepheus is still so small when he can already sense sibling rivalry.  However, with proper attention and care from the parents, we can always assure and reassure and ensure that our kids do not feel neglected or ignored and prevent the worst from happening.

I love Calyce and i love Cepheus the same.. be it if there will ever be abit more of one over the other.. it doesnt change any thing as i will treat them equally as much as i could and provide the best for them as best as we can