I can't please everyone

Nobody knew exactly when she is going to be born.. except that we have booked the date of 9th Feb. Dr LA commented yesterday that the best time to bring Calyce out is actually next week.  Last month, he have suggested week 38 as the best week for c-sec, but as my MIL keep asking me if i could delay it if possible due to CNY, and to make everyone happy, i decided to take the risk and i opted for the operation to be done after CNY.  And so he gave me a date of 9th Feb (10th Feb is the EDD), which was really too close to the EDD and he predicted during yesterday's checkup that i would not make it to 9th feb and ask me to rethink my choice again.  I am left with not much choice actually, initially i have opted for 28th Feb as the best date however, in order to make everyone happy, i decided to go ahead with taking the risk and end up my gynae is now very unhappy with my decision.  There is not much choice for me anyway now.. LA said that if i were to opt to c-sec during CNY period, there will be a surcharge of additional 1k to the bill, which doesnt make any difference even if i were to admit for emergency c-sec.. Anytime after CNY is already dangerous and as emergency as it is already..whats the difference between a monday and a wednessday since it carries same price and risk.. the difference is that i get to rest more at home than in hospital and start having the life of A Mother of Two.. so Calyce, Calyce, lets just wait and be patient ok.. Mommy have confidence in you and me.. we can definitely make it! :D

I am seeing LA again next week and we shall see what happens by then, if he thinks i can still tahan, i think i will still tahan, if he discovered that Calyce can't wait any longer, then i will have no choice but to admit earlier even foregoing CNY.  I cant please everyone! And i have my bb safety to think of!  If anyone ends up unhappy so be it!

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