another good point of Dear Dear.. whereas Dear Dear have been most understanding and patient with us (baby and me) today.. i have been in a bad mood the whole morning and afternoon.. Dear Dear have been carrying Cepheus for most of the time, while i am busy away with my undone reports from work.
I have been in very foul mood lately, and always complaining about how my life have changed since i have Ceph.. Dear Dear have been most patient with me and Cepheus and although he hates to feed and change Ceph (he have yet to change him yet), he is always willing to give a comfort arms to Ceph whenever Ceph throws a temper, cries or is sleepy.. no wonder Ceph likes him so much.. he have never really scolded or even raised his voice at Ceph before, even when Ceph is so difficult to care of these days.. unlike me, i have been raising my voice at Ceph and Dear when things don't go my way.. after being stressed at work and whenever Ceph throws a temper or refuse his meals or sleep.. that i am feeling so guilty now whenever i raise my voice at him. i wonder how a big guy like Dear can be so patient and caring towards a baby!! He really makes me 佩服 him and makes me ashamed of myself .. Dear have never really complain about how our life changes after having Ceph, although he do grumbles at times (i know he didnt really mean those mean remarks) and he is always so happy and willing to carry Ceph nowadays, much more than me.
Dear thank you for being so patient with me... after seeing how bad Ceph's temper is.. i hope i can change mine and to influence him in future too.. 
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My dear Sis-in-law,
You are doing a good job already!
I know you are not the "mummy" type in the sense of having particular soft spot for babies, or is a patient person by nature, yet despite these and all the challenges, you are always evaluating yourself and trying to improve, while you learn how to be a mother for the first time. That, by itself, is very commendable! I'm very proud of you!
No one is prepared for parenthood until we reach that step, so don't be so hard on yourself.
Jia you! We support you!
Wah .. 谢谢鼓励！！