Dear is finally coming home today!

after a two weeks business trip to TWN.  He have since travelled twice to taiwan within a month's time, upon joining his new company!  Which is unfair! couldn't they get someone else to travel?  is there no one else in his company that CAN travel?  then do something about it! sigh.. i knew nothing's good when he told me he is going to join this company .. anyway that is his choice.. but better don't overwork me! whilst i have been trying to avoid travel now with two kids.. he is actually been travelling more so often and even telling me that even after coming home today, he will be gone soon again! Can't his company or boss be more considerate and care a thought for our family?  if it is a pro family company, they wouldnt work him until like that!!

Anyways, i have been so busy myself working on the UG project and taking care of two kids at night and over the weekends whilst Dear is away.  And finally its going to end.. the big project which actually spans almost a 2 year period is coming to an end soon as we sign off our UAT this month.. whew.. what an accomplishment.. but hopefully i wont kena something so big so soon again as i really need a break! from work and from home, from everything else!

Whilst Dear have been away these two trips.  I have been taking care of my kiddos alone over the weekend, with some help from Joan, my FIL and my dad or sis who will drop by a few hours sometimes to help look after them and i do the housework, clean and cook for the kids.. actually frankly speaking, i find it still quite manageable and enjoyable! although i am left alone taking care of them most of the time from afternoon into the night! Although super tired after a day but i find the accomplishment sometimes even more bigger than working itself hahaha.. that said, am i more suited to be a housewife instead of a manager at work?  I have learnt to be more tolerant to my precious kids and be more efficient as well in coping with everything else.. learn to plan more carefully, like their meal times, nap time, milk time and sleep time.. and a sense of achievement goes to my head when the day ends up sweet and well.  I find that they do not fuss as much when my MIL and Dear is not at home and is easier to manage! when they are at home, Cepheus will throw into whole lotsa nonsense, i think purely to seek attention only.  But when they are not around, i actually can manage him better (!!!!) as he will become more sensible instead of anyhow throwing tantrums..

Anyway, although Dear said he is going to be on business trip soon after he returns.. i have no worries at all.. because the kids and myself are already used to life without him hahahaa.. and there is no difference whether he is around or not since he doesnt do any housework and just simply glue himself to the computer even when he is home.. the only thing is that when i need to go out to buy something i need to bring both along which apparently l start to cut short or cut out trips totally.. and sometimes will get my dad to run errands for me instead.. my... really.. family support is the most important thing one could get in times of need.. esp when you have young kids.  That is also why i already drop the idea of moving away from my dad.. because i know there are no other people i can rely on if i were to move away from here.. in case next time i need someone to pick up Cepheus or Calyce from school etc.. and also because i can take care of dad anytime too...