Poor Daddy

didnt get any decent sleep until 6am this morning.. Cepheus was crying throughout the night and demanded to be carried all the way.. once we thought that he already in deep sleep and put him down to his mattress, he will cry again.. maybe his tummy is not well and demands a cuddle.. but poor daddy have been entertaining him whole night that he didnt get any decent sleep as well.. Mommy went back to bed as i will need to take over in the morning and alot of household chores to be done in the day time as well.. Daddy is now sleeping with Cepheus during his nap time, trying to catch up his lost sleep...

Cepheus is so damn sticky to his daddy that i am getting buay tahan at times, unless daddy not around, he is ok to stick with me, but if he knew that daddy is in the house, he will demand that daddy carry him and play with him, this makes us both very pek chek and daddy cant get proper rest whenever he did that and mommy also felt hurt at times.. there is only one person who can substitute big daddy that is Daddy's Daddy himself.. Cepheus granddaddy.. he sticks to his grandpa like bee is to honey when my FIL came over to visit him and immediately, he will go to his grandpa and stop bothering his big daddy.. There is a similar trait in the Chia family male genes.. that is all the young kids just loves to stick to them.  According to my FIL, once a kid prefers someone, he/she will stick to him at all costs, but this will change as they gets older and their needs start to change as well..  i guess the chia males is just more patience than the rest of us.. i don't see them getting angry at the kids whenever they are unreasonable or kick up a fuss for nothing, if its me, i would have given them a slap long time ago.. but both my FIL and Dear Dear will continue to be patient and let Cepheus throw his tantrums.. is it considered pampering or what?  My MIL used to say that Cepheus is spoilt by Dear Dear and thus follows Dear around.. i am also not sure if its a good or bad sign, definitely not good when we cannot decide on the one right way to treat Cepheus so at times me and my MIL will tend to enforce Cepheus to do things but Dear will always say don't force don't force.. i guess from the male standpoint, is they simply bo chap and as long as the kid is happy just let him be.. but from us female perspective, we are too perfectionist and wanted the best for our kids.. so we tend to enforce.. and the result is.. they are most often turned off by us and become 反感..